Archive for March, 2006

一夜情,慾望還是情感?

Friday, March 17th, 2006

先戀愛再做愛, 是純情的一代.
先做愛再戀愛, 是現代的表率.
只做愛不戀愛, 是每個人的期待;
只戀愛不做愛, 肯定是變態的一代.
你是那一代?

現代男女IN的愛情信仰, 是"愛情=性欲". 幾乎一戀愛了, 就"炒飯"炒得沒完沒了. 對於性的觀念, 許多人都已經看得很開. 一生只愛一個人和第一次要在結婚時才付出, 這種神話已經破滅了很久.
在這個性解放的時代, 許多貪玩的男女都想嘗試一下不同的滋味. 動物不會只跟一個對象傳宗接代, 人類更不會一生只與一個人交往. 於是一夜情越炒越紅, 因為每次都有不同的刺激.

但一夜情是否每個人都玩得起呢?那則是見仁見智的問題了.

白色情人節快樂!!

Tuesday, March 14th, 2006

現在才發現,原來情人節也分這麼多顏色哦….

日記情人節(Diary Day):1月14日
在這一天,情侶們會互贈足夠紀錄一整年戀愛情事的日記本,以此象徵兩人將攜手走過未來一年,並留下更多美好回憶。

華崙亭情人節(Valentine’s Day):2月14日
西元3世紀時,羅馬皇帝為避免已婚男子不願離家當兵,發布了一道禁止結婚的法令,但華崙亭主教依舊違背皇帝旨意,秘密為青年人舉行婚禮。他因此遭到監禁,並於西元273年2月14日死在獄中。後人為了紀念他,將他殉難這天訂為「華侖亭日」,後來便成為世人耳熟能詳的西洋情人節。

白色情人節(White Day):3月14日
西方並沒有所謂「白色情人節」的傳統,在東方,2月14日女孩送男孩禮物表達情意之後,如果對方也有同樣的好感或情意,就會在3月14日回送女孩一份情人禮物,表示彼此心心相印;如果男孩對女孩沒感覺,只要刻意忽略這個日子,便算是委婉的拒絕。

現在情人節由誰主動送禮已經不重要了,只要有一方在2月14日收到異性送的禮物表達愛意,他或她在3月14日「白色情人節」這一天就會選擇是否有所回應;而對已經在一起的愛侶來說,這一天則是回贈對方情人節禮物的日子。

黑色情人節(Black Day):4月14日(韓國)
雖然並非天下有情人都能天長地久、甚至曾經擁有,但誰說孤家寡人或曠男怨女就不能過情人節?「黑色情人節」就是屬於單身貴族們的情人日。在前兩個月他們或許既沒收到甜蜜小禮物,也沒人可以送巧克力,但4月14日這天,大家共聚一堂,彼此鼓勵、加油打氣,化悲憤為力量,倒也熱熱鬧鬧十分開懷,藉此消除形單影隻的落寞感。

名為黑色情人節,在這一天,打算過節的人會讓自己生活在百分百的黑色世界裡,穿黑色套裝、黑帽子、黑皮鞋,吃黑豆製成的麵條,喝咖啡也不加奶精,享受黑咖啡的苦澀原味。

《4/14 橘色情人節》(台灣)
在台灣比較少人知道的橘色情人節,是讓在2月14日送告白巧克力與在3月14日回送巧克力回覆的男女雙方,再次確認對方心意的日子。
在4月14日橘色情人節那天,男女雙方會各自準備一份橘色的禮物互贈,以表達再次確定對方的心意,且希望這段感情能長久下去。

黃色與玫瑰情人節(Yellow and Rose Day):5月14日
如果已經到了5月,你的情事還是沒有任何進展,在這一天穿著黃色襯衫或黃色套裝,吃黃色咖哩飯,就是告訴大家「I am still available」的最好暗示。春日融融,將黃色穿在身上,也相當符合季節氣氛。

5月是玫瑰發芽的時節,氣候宜人適合出遊,因此許多情侶都選在這天相偕到戶外踏青,所以5月14日也有「玫瑰情人節」之稱。

在玫瑰日送人紅玫瑰是傾訴愛意;送白玫瑰花表示仍猶豫未決;若送上一束黃玫瑰,就是說再見了。

親吻情人節(Kiss Day):6月14日
這是一個屬於成雙成對戀人的重要節日,在這一天,情侶們不必再害羞,可以大大方方地用親吻表達對對方的愛意。當然,花前月下、燭光晚餐等浪漫氣氛,對一吻定情可是很有幫助的喔!

銀色情人節(Silver Day):7月14日
銀色情人節,是把你的意中人帶回家給老爸老媽認識,或介紹給其他你所尊敬的長輩的好機會。當然,這一天的全部開銷,都由這些「可愛的長者」買單〈為「安全」起見,你最好先確定長輩對這個節日很熟悉〉。銀色情人節也是愛侶互贈銀製禮品、飾物的日子。

綠色情人節(Green Day):8月14日
名為綠色情人節,當然和蓊鬱的森林脫不了關係。酷熱難耐的夏日午后,不妨和你的另一半作一趟涼爽而清新的森林之旅,盡情享受戶外大自然,度過健康而愉悅的一天。還在尋覓愛侶的人,可以參加Soju〈韓國綠牌薯酒〉派對,度過喧鬧的室內綠色情人節。

音樂情人節與相片情人節(Music Day & Photo Day):9月14日
音樂情人節這一天是舉辦大型社交活動、輕歌漫舞的日子,也是將你的心上人介紹給朋友、同事認識的好機會。而單身一族,更可以藉此機會看看活動現場有沒有自己中意的對象。

許多情侶喜歡在這天就著蔚藍晴朗的天空合影,所以9月14日又稱為「相片情人節」 。

葡萄酒情人節(Wine Day):10月14日
10月14日這一天戀人們輕啜葡萄美酒,慶祝充滿詩意的秋天。通常小倆口會選擇在浪漫且別緻的餐廳裡共進晚餐,然後聊聊彼此對未來的規畫,以及共同的目標等話題。

橙色情人節與電影情人節(Orange Day Movie day):11月14日
電影情人節這一天情侶們可以連趕兩場電影,或許先看一部緊張刺激的動作發洩壓力,然後再來一部感人肺腑的浪漫愛情片互拭淚水。看完兩人也該補充水分了,來杯健康的百分百柳橙汁吧!單身的人這一天也要喝杯柳橙汁,當然,想喝兩杯才痛快也沒人管得著。

擁抱情人節(Hug Day):12月14日
12月14日,想和你的情人抱多久都可以,在公開的場合擁抱,向世人宣告你倆的愛意,也讓寒冷的冬天變得格外溫馨。尤其是那些甜甜蜜蜜慶祝過2月14日華崙亭情人節的情侶,到了年底依然能熱情相擁,也見證了兩人情意如昔。

出軌

Monday, March 13th, 2006

出軌, 常令人聯想到, 夫妻之間, 丈夫有外遇, 亦或是妻子紅杏出牆等….

其實, 出軌的定義並不只限於肉體上的不忠,

當情侶們找到了屬於自己的另一半之後, 卻還對別的對象有感覺,

證明你在心灵上已經出了軌

S’pore Immigration Officer!!?! Like this ah??!!!

Monday, March 13th, 2006

Wah!!!S’pore Immigration officer’s working attitude is even worst than Malaysia’s officer!!!! Last friday nite when i was at s’pore custom, juz asking d female malay officer abt d availability of Malaysia’s restricted passport, I cant listen clearly whats her answer n juz made her pardon, who knows, she was then shouted at me!! Hey! Whats wrong?? How rude is her!!! Who did she think I am?? I’m not a highly wanted or suspected person ok!! Y treating me like i’m a prisoner??

Really feel like to launch a complain abt her, but i was wondering if i lauched the complain, i may cant enter s’pore anymore liao!! And then they might say that they r not customer service, should act strict, no need to ’smile’ to u guys!!

Really never expected to met this kind of things before, may be this is the most unfair thing that i ever met!! We cant even complain when they behave rude to us, we cant do anything but accept their rude behavior!! Juz like me, when the female malay fatty officer ‘with 2 sausage’ on her mouth shouted at me, i was so stupid to say thanx and smile at her somemore!!! JESSIE!!!! What a stupid idiot u r!! U should gv her a big slap then only thanx her mah!!STUPIDDDDD!!!!  <=== This kind of scene will only happen when i zZzzZZz….Haha…Anyway, next time should always bear in mind, this kind of inccident can only allowed to happen once, ‘one water pass’ ah!!! Muz avoid to talk to them if its not necessary…or else u may ‘get shot by emptied bullet gun’ without realizing it…REMEMBER!! B SMART ALL THE TIME!!!!! 

身材重要嗎?

Thursday, March 9th, 2006

男人都對擁有前凸後翹魔鬼身材的"模抖"流口水?

女人都會對擁有結實肌肉的猛男另眼相看?

  • 魔鬼身材的女人當然會特別吸引男人, 問題是, 樣貌也很重要啊, 所以, " 如花 " 的身材再好, 也難有作為,  Calvin, 32, 主管
  • 身材惹火, 要是再加穿著暴露, 那何止流口水, 噴鼻血都會啦.., Ken, 25, 室內設計
  • 身材當然重要. 太肥像跟豬上床, 太瘦像跟猴子做, 所以身材一定要均勻, Pam, 26, 私人秘書
  • 樣子比較重要, 除非你打算永遠關燈摸黑做, 或者把林志玲的照片貼在她臉上, T, 23, 大專學生
  • 比例比較重要, 一個不滿150公分卻肌肉滿滿的男人, 你不覺得很噁心嗎? , Ruby, 30, 行政助理
  • 身材是屬於視覺的問題, 女人不是視覺動物, 所以那不重要, Evelyn, 25, 公務員
  • Oooohh, 我喜歡身材健美的的酷哥, 不一定要世界先生啦, 但是有胸肌和六塊腹肌的男人就是有比較MAN的感覺啊, 不是嗎? , Noelle, 27, 經紀

本人也認為身材比例比較重要, 就如RUBY所說, 如要我對著一個不滿150公分卻肌肉滿滿的男人, 我寧願投資買間姑婆屋,去當老姑婆好了!!!

* 原文摘自時尚中文雜誌-女友, MAY ‘05

Praise God..

Wednesday, March 8th, 2006

Hahaha….hooray!!! Finally i get my leave application approved!!! I can go for the redang trip at the end!!!Wahaha….Muz enjoy myself vili vili much as I had worried for long time about the leave coz not sure whether can get it approved.. Really unexpected that I juz applied the leave yesterday afternoon and it was being approved this morning!!Hahaha…really happy when I first knew it!!

Really have to thanx my supervisor who approved my leave application coz normally newbie is not encouraged to apply leave as they have not yet pass the probation period. But I really glad to have such a nice supervisor, she is really kind, she can joke with us and treat us like frens, she wont ‘berlagak’ like - ‘I am supervisor, I shouldnt be so close to u all !’ She is really nice, last night only she invited all of us to go to her apartment to have fun, coz her apartment got swimming pool, gym house and all d facilities….really have fun last night!! She is even cook the dinner for us which she seldom cook at all but purposely cook for us…Praise God…for giving me such a nice ‘ fren + supervisor ‘! Hope that I can do well all the way for my work n wont disappointed her in the future!!

Redang Island!!!Wait for mE!!!!

Monday, March 6th, 2006

may b cant go redang oledi…  :(  actually planned to go redang island by end of april, even paid the deposit oledi, but now, seemed cant go oledi…coz i’m still a newbie in my company, not encouraged to take leave within probation period…ai…somemore my probation period is 6 mths, so long man…

ai…anyway, hope tat i can go redang by this time lor..coz really long time din go for vacation oledi..ahhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, March 5th, 2006

我願意降服,

永遠在你的懷抱中,

在你的愛里,

因你是我的主

work’ng life…

Thursday, March 2nd, 2006

i’d started my work in NUH for a month oledi, learn something new, and started to handle a station on my own oledi..quite pressure, coz still on the learning stage, lot of things oso cant make decision on my own..somemore, everything i did oso takes longer time than other, they may finish a test in few minutes, but i might take an hour to finish it…

felt down at the first few days when i started to handle the station on my own, there are 2 machine which i have to take care of….everyday oso praying that these 2 machine wont hv any problem..or else i may die bcoz of failed to perform test on time..

my working hours is from 8.30am to 5.30pm for these few mths until i get used to handle every test performed in my work place, but since i was being trained up at this very first station, i have to reach the lab at 8.00am and back about 6.30pm…need to work longer time than other leh.. :( i was once back on 11pm juz bcoz i’d not familiar with the test, so i need to stay back n re-run the test…so sad man…

anyway, i knew that i will do it better, coz….. ‘I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me..-Philippians 4:13